Italian-Americans eat a lot of food on Thanksgiving, but not as much as we used to when I was growing up. There were at least five courses…starting with an appetizer, pasta dish, turkey and all the sides, fruits and nuts, and then dessert with espresso. Usually we started with an antipasto which consisted of all different variations of cheeses, meats, vegetables, etc. served with Italian bread of course.
Next would be the pasta. It was either lasagna, ravioli, manicotti, but it wasn’t just the pasta. We would serve all of the gravy meat along with the pasta which included meatballs, sausage, bracciole, different cuts of pork such as ribs, pork loin, etc. There was also another type of bracciole that was included back in the day which I haven’t made for many years, mainly because no one in the younger generation would eat it. It was called cotenna or stuffed rolled pig skin. If done correctly, it was delicious. We would stuff the pig skin just like we stuffed a meat bracciole. I liked it best the way my sister Rose would stuff it, she would make a stuffing with eggs, cheese, garlic, breadcrumbs parsley and mix it into a paste consistency. Then she spread it on the pig skin and rolled it and tied it with baking twine. If overcooked it could be mushy which was not very appealing. The secret was cooking it so it was a bit chewy, so it had a little bite to it.
Then came the turkey with all the sides. Of course we stuffed the turkey with many different variations of stuffing. My favorite stuffing which I still make to this day is a recipe that I have been using for a long time. I have tweaked it and made it my own over the years. Of course, gravy for the turkey and stuffing.
Most of the side dishes have pretty much been consistent over the years such as stuffed artichokes, candied yams, mushrooms, either sauteed or stuffed, panzerotti, and whatever vegetable you preferred. This year I’m adding aparagus fritters and corn casserole made by my daughter-in-law’s mother. Of course this course wouldn’t be complete without a huge salad, which we eat along with the turkey and sides or right after. For some reason we never ate the salad before the main course. You can find some of these recipes on my YouTube cooking channel if you are interested https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCVDEufSGd-NBIZYE514yDQ
After dinner came the fruit, mixed nuts, figs, roasted chestnuts and finocchio or in English “Fennel;” it was supposedly a digestive and also good for an upset stomach. After eating all that food, anything that helped the stomach was welcome. I’ve stopped making most of these courses because it’s just TOO much!
Then came the dessert…when I was growing up it was usually Italian pastries…cannoli, sfogliatelle, pasticotti, biscotti, zeppole and cookies…pignoli, anginetti, pizzelles, and many more too numerous to mention. Dessert was usually served with espresso and either Anisette or Sambuco with a tiny lemon rind to top off the meal. I’ve Americanized the desserts I serve on Thanksgiving. I’ve included pumpkin pie, pecan pie, apple pie and more of the traditional American recipes; although at Christmas time I do bake the Italian-American favorites such as struffoli, wine cookies and our all-time favorite… Italian Christmas cookies. Some people call them Angelleti, some people call them Taralles or Anise cookies. Whatever you call them, they are delicious.
Thanksgiving is next week and as usual I will be cooking, baking, and enjoying my family. I don’t make everything for the holidays that my parents and grandparents before me cooked because it’s just simply too much food. We’ve slimmed it down considerably and it’s still more than enough. I don’t know about you but I can’t eat as much as I used to. We will be giving thanks this year for all our blessings including our family and continued health for everyone. Salute!
Thanks Hedy for a trip down memory lane! I do miss those wonderful family celebrations! My mom was an amazing cook. (I took after her) . Yes we have cut back on the amount of food! Just can’t eat as much now. I don’t know how my mom did, mostly by herself. When we girls got older we would help. I miss her so much. Both my boys love to cook so they are going to help me this year. Hope you have a blessed Thanksgiving. ❤️
thanks aunt hedy, love the stories
Hi Hedy, I think most of our generation of Italian women have slimmed down the holiday combined American/Italian feasts of yesterday. As you said, they were simply too much. I too came from an area known as “Little Italy”, it is in Upstate NY, known as the Capitol District. After a Thanksgiving or two with my family, my then future husband declared, “There is only one turkey in all of Little Italy. They just pass it around from house to house for “show”, because after they stuff you with all their delicious traditional courses, nobody even wants to even think about a turkey dinner”. LOL, he was partially right, but we did all have own turkey to figure out what to do with. 🙂
He was so right. My kids think I make too much now. They should have seen the table at my grandmother’s house with all the food my aunts and mother made.
I’m reminded of my mom’s two best friends – known as the Londrica Sisters. They were very Italian and very religious. If they stepped on an ant by mistake, they wore black for a year.
Strange friends, some folks said. Italian-Catholic and an orthodox Jew. But they were thick as thieves and I miss all three of them.
Thank you for the pasta e fagioli.